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04/12/2002 Archived Entry: "divorce"

I say I don't get it, but I guess I really do. Two independent people sharing a life for years and kids and grandkids and more years, one finds an outside interest that he is willing to accept in trade for all he's had....

and he gives up the history, the years for a possibility. Just that quick. Two marriages dissolved for a weekend wish that may or may not hold any future. What happens now that they are stuck together and she starts trying to change him, or he begins to develop expectations of her? After years of creating a working relationship, he begins again. I say I don't get it, but I guess I really do.....

Two more independent people, joined and working hard to make a forever, with one child already being ripped away from her daddy, now losing her second daddy. What happens to the child? Where will her trust lie? How will she learn of love and forever and commitment and trust? At what point does the trying become giving up? I say I don't get it, but I guess I really do.........

It comes from getting caught. When the injured party was unaware of being injured, life went on. Maybe several times, several perpetrators/victims. Suddenly through carelessness or not caring or jealousy or whatever the motive, the secret is outed, and a decision must be made.... a choice is forced and which way will it go (this time?)..... Is it better to up and confess and out it all or wait to be caught? Knowing as I've watched that the extras don't hold their appeal after being "stuck" with each other, and they fall apart, it is best not to give in to the temptation to start with, but if you have, do not voluntarily confess, give it up, move on, don't make the mistake again.

Too much news for one day. Hold me hubby. Never let me go.